Should I Marry an American Woman?

Should I marry an American woman? The true answer is: Yes, maybe, and maybe not.

If you can find an American woman (one compatible with you) who truly believes Almighty God and fully accepts His plan for the family; then, the answer is an unqualified "Yes!".

If you plan to marry a woman who follows the secular philosophy of the United States of America, you should consider the following:

If you are a real male, you will probably find contemporary secular American marriage challenging (to say the least). Why? Consider the following:

In secular America, it is considered a negative for a male to display anger (your American wife may accuse you of "domestic abuse").

In secular America, it is considered a negative for a husband to obstinately disagree with his wife (your wife may accuse you of "domestic abuse".

In secular America, it is considered a negative for a husband to question a wife about her "choices" (your wife may accuse you of "domestic abuse").

In secular America, it is considered a negative for a husband to strongly disagree with his wife (your wife may accuse you of "domestic abuse").

In secular America, it is considered a negative for a husband to raise is voice at his wife (your wife may accuse you of "domestic abuse").

In secular America, it is considered a negative for a man to give his wife an order or command (Your wife may accuse you of "domestic abuse").

In secular America, men are expected to do what women tell them to do (otherwise, you may be accused of being "uncooperative").

In secular America, some women have been taught to bring men down.

In secular America, some women have been taught to compete with and defeat men.

If you are fine with all of the above possibilities being prevalent in your secular American marriage, then it's your call. If you are not fine with the above being prevalent in your secular American marriage, I think you need to think again.

Currently, the relationships between men and women in secular America are basically unGodly. They have moved away from the pattern Almighty God laid, outlined, and commanded in the Holy Bible and have substituted their own pattern. Their own pattern is wreaking havoc in secular American families but they are so far out on a limb they have no intention of returning to God's way of doing things.

Real men are fully aggravated by many of the unpleasant conditions outlined above. Males who have been taught to defer to the rulership of women will abdicate and subordinate their masculinity in order to "peacefully co-exist" with the female in his orbit.

Truthfully, I don't have much respect for most American men that I know (because most have abdicated their God-given position and subordinated their masculinity to American females. Those of us who choose to stand up and be the real men God made us to be are considered pariahs.